Better or Bitter?

A few days ago I was having a conversation with a friend about how she had been a blessing in my life. I wanted to make sure she knew that I appreciate her. As the conversation progressed I had a thought, this thought began to transform the way I thought about my relationships in any capacity.

I began to wonder about all the people who entered my life, did they help me to be better, or did it make me bitter? Then I thought about this question in reverse. When I walk into others’ lives, do I help them to be their best selves or cause confusion?

I really want you to give this some thought. It’s important that we are honest about how we show up for those we love, work for and with, and whom we affiliate with.

After someone is done speaking with you, do they feel refreshed or burdened?

If you make a phone call, are they excited to answer or send you to voicemail?

It’s critical that we take inventory of ourselves, our beliefs, behaviors, and attitudes. This can greatly impact how you relate to others and they relate to you.

Please share your thoughts in the comments.